So, I was out with some friends and some of their friends (ideal audience). I stayed silent at first but shared my love theories after they’d had a few drinks. They laughed heartily and felt astonished, to say the least. One of them switched seats to listen to my tales better. She even said, My over-analysis of love might leave me single forever. On the bright side, I serve mankind by drawing valuable insights from my dating experiences. I was even compared to the Nobel Prize winner, John Nash.
Let me exemplify in the context of human relationships. If humans aim for happiness and love equally boosts both partners’ joy (T/2), game theory calculates person A’s dependence on B as the average of B’s single happiness plus their shared happiness minus B’s single happiness.
Worth of A in the relationship= (A + (T-B))/2
( A, B denote singlehood happiness and T denotes the total happiness when they are in a relationship)
The happier you stay single, the better you boost your happiness and improve your chances of finding your dream match. So, philosophy and religious teachings about loving yourself to radiate positive vibes that attract others make complete mathematical sense.
And here for years, I have been in the quest of love seeking divine happiness. Little did I realize that the answer lay within me.
Later,
Sidhant
